“Living together apart” seems to be a popular choice these days, whether to maximise benefits payments or to maintain independence. In fact almost 30% of people are now living alone.
Of course no-one wants to be lonely, which is not good for your health but sometimes we need breathing space to do our own thing.
And I wonder how far apart you can actually be with text messaging, Skyping, not to mention tweeting and face-book!
So what are the reasons people can’t live together?
- You’ve put books on the bookshelf!
- You never notice hairs on the floor
- Why do you need so many CDs?
- You start clearing things away before I’ve finished cooking
- I can’t stand the soaps – they all have the same plots and interchangeable actors
- I can’t understand why you don’t like my Bulgarian gypsy music?
- You hate my cat! – You hate my dog!
- We’d need a bigger bed (and I like the one I’ve got)
- You’ll be upgrading my computer next – You’ve upgraded my computer – what was wrong with WordPerfect? – Of course I won’t upgrade you
- You move your lips when you read
- You tell me what’s in my newspaper before I’ve read it
- What do you mean you want sex more than once a month?
- God, you’re not watching Top Gear on Dave again are you?
- You never put my clothes away neatly when you’ve been wearing them! – You never put your own clothes away when you’ve been wearing them
- Why would you want a joint bank account?
- You never scrape the candle wax out of the bath
- Diet coke on cornflakes is not a health food
- I haven’t got your address in my sat nav
- It was definitely your turn to pay!
- Why would I fancy your best friend?
- Yes it is a rat, but it’s a pet rat. – Your snake ate my pet rat
- You drank nearly all my vodka and filled up the bottle with water – I was p****d. You’re lucky it was only water
- You are always right. No, I just can’t remember the last time I was wrong – She’s Russian and she’s right – OK!
- You’re still using that dating site
- I’m not sure I can be that flexible?
- You take my OK magazine and read it on the toilet…. this is not OK!
- Who is that with you in the photograph? I thought you were on a business trip!
- Why do your staff think I’m your book-keeper?
- Why does your mother think I’m gay?
- You said you’d never been married! – You said you’d never had kids!
- I like it that you are so independent
- My friends are real! – Do you really think so? Are you sure?
- What’s wrong with texting in bed? – You’re confusing texting and sexting – again
- SMS has nothing to do with sado-masochism or sex
- You drink skinny decaff. What’s the point? – At least I drink coffee, not just tea with lemon
- I thought a birthday card would remind you how old you are – I hate seeing you getting older each day
- If I buy you flowers you think I must be feeling guilty – What’s wrong with a house plant? It will last longer than flowers.
- It’s not just an electric guitar – it’s a modern design icon! – You’ll be telling me next it’s an investment
- You keep using my “herbal” medication – Your Bob Marley accent is rubbish
- Your real long-term relationship is with your laptop and a bottle of wine
- What’s wrong with multi-tasking?
- I’m worried about the kid’s inheritance – So how much did you say you had saved up?
- I heard you say you were planning to ski – you hate cold weather – I said SKI-ing darling
- You squeeze the toothpaste from the wrong end – At least I brush my teeth – So do I but the garlic lingers on
- I’m sure you told me where she had her tattoo. How else would I know about it?
- No? Well it must have been on Facebook! – She must not understand the privacy settings
- Why do you have tomato ketchup with everything? – I can’t stand the smell of brown sauce
- You know I want vinegar on my chips – not mayonnaise
- You are always quoting Mae West at me – it’s not funny any more! – And you think W C Fields is funny?
- I can’t believe you think I’m like that “Desperate Housewives” person! – Well at least she can cook!
- You’d rather believe Google than me – Well I sold the encyclopaedias because you said you knew it all
- Why do I have to go hungry when you’re on yet another diet? – Am I your mother?
- You won’t get your dog “fixed” – You first, set an example
- I wasn’t comparing you. I just said she looked nice – But you told her at least three times!
- You’re always posing – Life’s too short not to pose
- Which part of “I’m not the marrying kind” didn’t you understand? – Who said anything about getting married? I just want your babies
- Let’s wait until you’ve done that personality profile so I can match our types
- My therapist says it wouldn’t be advisable for me to live with anyone – And how do you feel about that?
- I’m not looking for a father figure – So you think I’m too old for you? – Well you said I made you feel like a dirty old man – That wasn’t because of your age! – Age is a question of mind over matter. If you don’t mind it doesn’t matter!
- You think more about your pigeons than me – At least they know their way home
- You thought it was OK for the Americans to finish top of our group! – You felt sorry for the French team – cheating b*****ds
- I thought you told me he was bringing back one of those Venezuelans?
- You said you’d stop wearing the football strip when England went out
- What’s more important, buying me a ring or going to Brazil in 4 years? – If you have to ask!
- You’d rather believe your dreams than me. I’ve never met this person!
- This is not a real relationship it’s a sleepover!
- Just think of the money we could save
- I’ve told you before: DVDs by genre and CDs by artist alphabetically!
Thanks to you all – let’s try some more
69 Oh, I have always been fond of that number!
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