Previous research has suggested that breastfeeding can boost your baby’s IQ and also help develop it as the child grows older.
However research at Goldsmiths College, London, now proposes that “Comparatively small events like breastfeeding are very unlikely to be at the core of something as big and complex as children’s differences in IQ. Instead children’s IQ differences are better explained by long-term factors, for example, children’s family background and their schooling”
These findings are based on a study of 11,000 British children (from the Twins Early Development Study) who were tested between the ages of two and sixteen so researchers could see how IQ grew. While there appeared to be a link between breastfeeding and girls’ IQ at two years of agent wasn’t statistically significant and wasn’t present for boys.
The study also found that girls’ IQ was slightly higher than boys at age seven the difference had disappeared by the age of sixteen.
Do not despair however there are other well-known benefits from breastfeeding (source: NHS choices).
Less chance of diarrhoea and vomiting and having to go to hospital as a result
Fewer chest and ear infections so fewer visits to hospital
Previously it was thought that couples with daughters were more likely to get divorced either because men had a preference for sons or daughters empowered their mothers to leave a difficult relationship.
So having daughters had a negative effect on relationships – but new research by economists at Duke University in North Carolina suggests that it’s the other way round. Because female embryos are more robust than male ones they are more likely to survive the stress of a bad relationship.
Usually there are 105 boys born to every 100 girls but during times of extreme stress or upheaval such as earthquakes or famines more girls are born.
US census data showed that fathers are less likely to be living with their children if they have daughters rather than sons. Mothers who reported high levels of marital conflict were more likely to go on and have baby girls.
Well it is according to parenting web-site BabyCentre.
They surveyed around 2,000 mums and found three out of four millennial mums i.e. aged 18 to 32, spent 8 hours a day on their smart phone, tablet or computer.
Almost half of them admitted buying something after seeing someone in their social network following a particular brand and more than half admitted they were influenced by comments pasted on Facebook.
The managing director of BabyCentre said “Millennial mums said they found motherhood really tough with all the competitiveness and accepted that they’re bringing it upon themselves by their prolific sharing of photographs and baby moments online. There is competitiveness over first milestones from first words to when their children can count to ten. It also includes the brand of buggy and the size and design of footwear”
Some mums in the survey said they felt pressured to take their children to swimming classes or music lessons so as not to be considered a bad mum.
Seems everyone wants to be an Alpha Mum and yet they rely on Facebook and other social networks to make decisions.
The statistics quoted from this survey seems unbelievable yet when did you last see a young woman without a smartphone in her hand? Millennial mums spend about twice the time on their mobile phones as Generation X (born in mid-60s to mid-80s) and half bought something on-line every week. A clear case of smartphone addiction or Nomophobia
If they spent less time on social media they would feel less pressured and have more time for their babies and real friends.
They might wake you up every couple of hours for a feed but all for a good reason.
It seems babies are evolutionary programmed to do just that.
Researchers at Harvard University looking into breastfeeding and sleeping practices argue that by waking up their Mums for a feed they are delaying the return of her ovulation cycle (as well as reducing the time and energy to have sex).
This helps prevent the birth of a sibling with whom they would have to compete for food.
This can be a substantial benefit when food is scarce. In Somalia for example the mortality rate for 1 year-old children was increased fourfold if they had a younger sibling.
Professor David Haig, writing in the journal Evolution, Medicine and Public Health, says “there is no perfect harmony between mother and child. What is best for one is not necessarily best for the other”.
The research might explain why children can revert to waking up frequently in the night after 6 months and why babies fed formula milk tend to sleep more soundly (because there is a weaker incentive to demand food as formula is always available).
Singing your kids to sleep is not just something grannies used to do. Research at Great Ormond Street Hospital , on children ranging from a week old to 4 years of age, has shown that when you sing to your baby it lowers their heart rate and reduces their perception of pain.
Singing lullabies definitely calms babies.
So dig out that song book – the old ones are the best: Hush Little Baby, Hush a bye baby, Twinkle, twinkle little star etc
And in case you wondered it’s not just the adult attention that does the trick. Reading bed-time stories doesn’t calm children – but that’s not to say you shouldn’t do it as it’s a lovely shared experience.